West Coast Swing Stuttgart

Code of Conduct

🎶 WCS Dance Etiquette – Made Simple

We want everyone to feel comfortable and welcome. Here are some easy tips on how to contribute to a great atmosphere at parties, events, and workshops.

🗣 Giving Feedback – The Friendly Way

Golden Rule:

• Only give feedback if someone asks for it.
• Always be kind and constructive.
• Exception: If something feels uncomfortable or unsafe – speak up. A “no” always means no.

Want feedback? Here’s how to ask:

• “Could you give me some feedback after our dance? I’d love for you to watch out for ____.”

🫴 Asking Someone to Dance

Be clear and kind:

• “Would you like to dance?”
• “Would you like to lead me / follow me?”

Good to know:

• Ask clearly and respectfully.
• A “no” must always be respected.

• If you decline, be kind – and maybe offer a dance later:

  • “Maybe later – I’m taking a break right now.”
• Don’t pull someone onto the floor or use commands (“Come on, dance with me!”).
• Anyone can ask – leaders, followers, switches.
• Be inclusive: Ask people of all ages, genders, and skill levels.

🎥 Filming at Socials and Competitions

At Socials/Parties:

• Always ask before filming a dance.
• Be clear about what you want to use the video for (private lessons, social media, etc.).
• Film discreetly – don’t block others or circle around dancing couples.
• Don’t film pros, all-stars, or champions at parties – they just want to enjoy themselves and dance with friends. That’s what J’n’J and shows are for.

At Competitions:

• Only film if someone specifically asks you to.
• Focus fully on the person you’re filming – don’t get distracted.
• If you’re asking someone to film for you, be polite and understanding. Sometimes people are busy or not in the mood.

🎉 Party Basics – Social Dance Tips

• Respect the floor: Try not to bump into others or invade their space.
• If the floor is crowded, make your steps smaller and tighten your frame.
• Focus on your dance partner – not the crowd.

• Hygiene: Smelling good is nice – smelling neutral is even better.

  • Avoid strong perfume or deodorant – many people are sensitive to scents.
  • If you sweat a lot, bring extra shirts or a small towel.
• Steal Dances: Always ask before joining.

• Respect boundaries: If someone touches you in a way that feels wrong – say something.

  • Be calm and friendly – it may have been an accident.
  • But it’s always okay to clearly express your personal boundaries.

• Can’t say it right away? You can also talk to them later:

  • “Hey, during our dance, I noticed / something happened / you did ___. That made me uncomfortable. Could you please be more mindful next time?”

Why This Matters 🤝

Our community thrives on respect, kindness, and consideration. Thanks for helping us keep our dance spaces safe, joyful, and welcoming for everyone! 💖